Today I saw a little boy riding a bicycle with training wheels. He was confident and excited and enjoying the fresh air. His father ran alongside- sometimes needing to really push himself and sometimes I saw the father extend him arms as if he was a mother hen, protecting his son from falling. That little boy didn't really pay attention. He just rode confidently, secure in knowing his Dad would be there to catch him if anything went awry.
It reminded me of the time I asked my Dad what he remembered from when my sisters and I were little. His response was that all he remembered was wild, flying bodies screeching "Catch me Daddy!" He commented on how he would worry about not being able to catch us. But that's the beauty of it- he worried. He made such an effort and because he cared I have a deep down, solid knowing that no matter what the situation, my Dad will catch me if I fall.
So I can go through life like that little boy. Not as carefree now that I'm an adult but secure in that deep knowing. That little boy and I have been given a beautiful gift as have all the others in the world who have fathers who treasured them. To be a good father you don't have to be perfect. You just need to be present and make your kids a priority in your life.You men who step up and protect, love, and guide your children do an amazing thing and make the world a better place. Thank-you for being you and making that choice.

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